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Birthday Blues: Why a Day Meant to Celebrate Can Feel Surprisingly Heavy and How to Re-Centr Yourself
Birthdays can bring excitement and unexpected sadness. This post explores the psychology behind birthday blues, why birthdays can amplify loneliness and pressure, and practical ways to feel more grounded and connected on your birthday.
Mahika Hari
2 days ago4 min read


What to Say When You Haven’t Texted Back in Weeks
Haven’t texted back in weeks? Here’s how to respond with honesty and ease — plus real examples for friends, family, dating, and work.
Mahika Hari
Jan 283 min read


The Psychology of Flaky People (And How to Stop Being One)
If you’ve ever canceled plans and felt guilty about it, this one’s for you. A look at the psychology behind flakiness—and how to create a social life that actually fits your energy.
Mahika Hari
Jan 213 min read


Adult Friendship Isn’t Broken. It Just Works Differently
Making friends as an adult is weirdly hard. Still, adult friendships aren’t impossible. They just need intention.
Mahika Hari
Jan 142 min read


Setting Social Intentions for 2026 (without forcing it)
New year energy can be weird. Suddenly it’s all “be more social, say yes more, reinvent yourself, meet a million new people.” And honestly? That’s a fast track to burnout. 2026 doesn’t have to be about becoming a different person. It can just be about being more you — with a little more intention. Instead of resolutions, think social intentions.
Mahika Hari
Jan 73 min read


Reflecting on Your Social Year: Journaling Prompts to Prepare for 2026
Reflecting on Your Social Year: Journaling Prompts to Prepare for 2026
Mahika Hari
Dec 31, 20253 min read


The Gift of Showing Up
Friendship isn’t about big gestures—it’s about showing up. Explore meaningful friendship rituals that strengthen connection, presence, and trust this holiday season.
Mahika Hari
Dec 24, 20253 min read


Navigating Holiday Social Burnout: Strategies to Recharge Your Social Battery
Learn how to prevent holiday social burnout with practical tips to protect your social battery, set boundaries, recharge, and enjoy the season without feeling overwhelmed.
Mahika Hari
Dec 17, 20253 min read


The Science of Social Well-Being: What the Research Actually Says
Social connections shape our lives in ways science is only beginning to fully understand. Yet, science has been remarkably consistent on this: the people we surround ourselves with shape our happiness, resilience, and even our longevity. And yet, modern life makes staying connected harder than ever. While technology promises to keep us linked, many people feel more isolated than ever. It’s no surprise that loneliness is now considered a public health issue. Key findings from
Mahika Hari
Dec 10, 20254 min read


The Loneliness Epidemic
Even though strong relationships are one of the biggest contributors to our health, many people today feel less connected than they’d like to be. Loneliness is now so widespread that some health leaders consider it a public-health crisis. According to a national CDC survey , about 1 in 3 U.S. adults report feeling lonely . So if you’ve felt this way, you’re far from alone. Recent research shows troubling trends across age groups: An estimated 37.4% of U.S. adults report mode
Mahika Hari
Dec 10, 20252 min read


Why We Track Everything… Except Our Friendships
And how that realization led me to build Centr We track our steps, calories, sleep, screen time, budgets, and stress levels. But when it comes to friendships, the thing most strongly tied to our happiness and long-term health, most of us rely on… memory. Gut feeling. Vibes. And because life gets busy, friendships slip through the cracks. This is not because we don’t care, but it's because we don’t have systems that support us. This nagged at me for years. And eventually, it b
Mahika Hari
Dec 3, 20254 min read
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